Getting the girl of your dreams to fall in love with you is just the same as having the car of your dreams. But unlike getting that car where you vigorously bargain for it, you cannot do so while courting your girl. There are no such discounts and shortcuts. Getting her will largely depend on how big your heart is, and how you communicate with her through it.
First thing’s first, make a good impression. It’s not about talking, or dressing up, or just about anything to get a girl’s attention. It’s about being unique and being a man in your own style. Also, watch your language. How you handle your language can give you out, and hinting signs of immaturity. Try to be a sincere person with good habits.
Let her fall for you gradually. Having romance is an important aspect when falling in love. Write letters and be creative. You can play around and be secretive about this, letting her find out for herself. Befriend her. Nothing can ever get you close to her by being friends with her. Love is built upon strong foundations of friendship. Understand that as a lady, she needs to be loved, adored and needed. Learn her likes and dislikes. Give her importance.
A shoulder to lean on to is what every lady in this world wants. You can be that person who helps inspire her to be strong and restore hope to herself when she had none. Lend an ear when she needs someone to listen to her. This will make you her daily vitamins because you are simply there to bring out the best in her. She’s now confident in opening up and sharing things with you. Best of all she feels secured with you around her life.
Always make her feel special; let her know in indirect ways how she too has touched your life for the better. Compliment her honestly, especially her company for being there when you needed her the most. Show her your appreciation for the comfort she gladly offers to you. Telling her of the efforts she is making to make you smile is priceless. All these things will surely make her feel good about.
In all these patience is a virtue, wining her heart is never done overnight. Learning how to make a girl fall in love with you will surely do wonders for both of you.